Category Archives: Relationships
Why Health Care Reform Represents our Downfall
You and I have been listening to stories of infidelity (Jesse James/Tiger Woods), audacities of the Highest order (Catholic Church), and vitriol spewed from men and women who are supposed to represent us and our interests (Health Care Debate). I watched in disgust as a man with Parkinsons Disease was belittled for all to see because he supports President Obama and the health care bill. Continue reading
Jesse James Tattooed!
Gentlemen, do you really want your female partner to fail? Because that is the message so many are sending when they fail to support their partners. Men are saying that our egos are far too fragile for someone else to demonstrate competence let alone success. Continue reading
Filed under Divorce, Dumb Men, Marriage, Relationships, sex
Ben Roethlisberger: Just Another Famous Athlete or Abuser?
I cannot imagine an African-American athlete dealing with a second sexual assault charge in less then a year being treated with such kid gloves. Maybe we have matured and it really isn’t about race. Continue reading
How to Help Your Man When He is Depressed
Normal men struggle with confidence more often they will ever let on. We, men, wonder what you wonder about us. We burn out, feel left out, and sometimes when we are vulnerable we lash out. These are things we are not proud of nor do we want to be sponsors of for the next generation. Continue reading
What Lane is Your Relationship in?
We are all human and it IS Normal to have a change of heart, a change of direction and/or purpose. That doesn’t mean that our relationships have to suffer or end. Don’t be the couple that holds each other down out of fear. Continue reading
Can You Trust Your Husband To Travel Alone?
Trust can be a very fickle and elusive element in the modern relationship. We watch television…we watch movies like Up in the Air…laughing and crying with our spouse at the overall entertainment value…all the while wondering if what we are seeing on screen is merely art imitating someone else’s life…or hinting at our own. Continue reading
Filed under Divorce, Marriage, Relationships, sex
Man-Up or Stand Up? The American Boy is in Trouble
I say with great confidence and sadness that our young boys are at a crossroads. Our boys are flailing in the wind with no direction, purpose, or sense of self. Continue reading
Dear Dr. Rod from Confused in California
It is often said that opposites attract in the game of love. Others, who don’t side with Paula Abdul’s hit song from the early 90′s, believe that a perfect love connection derives from identical hobbies, morals, and values. Continue reading
